More Than Who You Are

Bite off a little more than you can chew
You get stronger
And you do that in the gym
For example, when you go lift weights, you lift weights that are a little
heavier all the time
And as a consequence, you develop yourself physically and you turn into
Who you could be, you turn into more than you are
More than who — you are
(Who you could be)
More than who — you are
(More than you are)
More than who — you are
(Who you could be)
More than who — you are
(More than you are)
There’s a mythological trope that I discuss fairly frequently about rescuing
your father from the belly of the dragon
Or the belly of the beast
You see it in the Lion King
You see it when Simba is being initiated by the baboon and he ends up
contemplating himself in a dark pool and then his father appears in the sky
And then in the Pinocchio story
When he’s trying to become a genuine human being
Instead of a marionette pulled by other people’s strings or a liar or a jackass
'cause those are his alternate destinies
He goes down to the darkest place he could find the bottom of the ocean and
finds the biggest monster he can look at and inside he finds his father and
then rescues him
More than who — you are
(Who you could be)
More than who — you are
(More than you are)
More than who — you are
(Who you could be)
More than who — you are
(More than you are)
And the question is; Why do you find your father when you look into the abyss?
Imagine someone’s pursuing a goal
Some of the things they have to accomplish or confront
On the way to that goal frightened them
And they start to avoid and then they get more afraid and their ability to
pursue their goal or to accomplish their goal deteriorates because they’re
avoiding it
If you’re a psychotherapist or even a friend or a supportive loved one
You’re gonna encourage the person to face the challenges that are making them
afraid to face them voluntarily
What happens as a consequence of that is that
The person usually is able to overcome those fears and develop the necessary
skill and to prevail That’s partly because
Not so much because they get less afraid
But because they get more skilled and more courageous
If you bite off a little more than you can chew
You get stronger
As a consequence
And you do that in the gym for example, when you go lift weights,
you lift weights that are a little heavier all the time
And as a consequence, you develop yourself physically and you turn into
Who you could be
You turn into more than you are
Okay, so if you face fears a little bit at a time
Fears and challenges and you do that voluntarily
Then you become
More than who — you are
(Who you could be)
More than who — you are
(More than you are)
More than who — you are
(Who you could be)
More than who — you are
(More than you are)
Okay, now let’s recast that in archetypal language and make it into a kind of
ultimate
If you wanna become everything that you could be
Then you look into the abyss itself
Which is the darkest place that you can possibly contemplate
The terror of mortality and insanity and of suffering and of malevolence,
all of those, it would be like looking into hell, I suppose
And then by voluntarily doing that
You call upon the strongest part of yourself to respond
And the strongest part of yourself is symbolized as the sleeping father nested
inside the beast
It’s like an answer to Nietzsches conundrum, if you look long enough into an
abyss then the abyss looks into you
It’s like, well, if you look long enough into an abyss
Past when the abyss looks into you, you see who you could become in the form of
the great ancestral figures nested inside the catastrophe of life
Then you can join them
You can incorporate that and become stronger
And none of that’s going to happen without the demand that’s placed on you by
willing to confront
The full terror of life
The reality of suffering and death
The ever-looming presence of malevolence in your own heart and in the heart of
other people, so it’s evil and suffering
If you do it forthrightly
Then you discover who you could be as a consequence and
Who you could be
Is the solution to malevolence and suffering
More than who — you are
(Who you could be)
More than who — you are
(More than you are)
More than who — you are
(Who you could be)
More than who — you are
(More than you are)
Such a brilliant conceptualization that inside the darkest place is the heroic
ancestor
Whose identity you could incorporate
Perfect
It’s perfect
And I really believe it’s true and what it does is it says that
The human being is actually stronger than the greatest challenge that can be
set before him or her